Clarification on Prayer

Clarification on Prayer
Rev Kelvin Burke
 
 
 

“Personal prayer, it seems to me, is one of the simple necessities of life, as basic to the individual as sunshine, food and water, and at times, more so. By prayer I mean an effort to get in touch with the Almighty.  We know that our prayers are imperfect. Of course they are. We are imperfect human beings. A thousand experiences have convinced me beyond room of doubt that prayer multiplies the strength of the individual and brings within the scope of his capabilities almost any conceivable objective” Eisenhower

Prayer is one of those subjects we all know about but if we are honest we are not sure we do it right.
There are 3 clarifications in our two readings today from Matthew 6 and Joel 2.

First Clarification: It’s not about words
Second Clarification: The quiet time and place is important
Third Clarification: God is Merciful

It’s not about words

It's not about words, many words or empty phrases. Big words can lead others to think I can't pray like that or I am going to say the wrong thing, or sound stupid or run out of things to say. We should never feel inadequate in prayer, nor should others feel inadequate when we pray.

There is a humorous story of a mother correcting a child who says that God’s name is Harold. The child insists, we say ‘Harold be thy name! The point is this: God doesn’t think any less of the child because she says it wrong - I’m sure God was thrilled she is praying. Our heavenly father treasures our stuttering, stumbling prayers.  It is a simple illustration, which I hope, helps us to learn that prayer is not about using many words or the right words. Prayer is about getting to know God a bit better each time we talk to Him.  It is about developing that bond between Abba father and child of God, developing that bond between Jesus and us the adopted sons and daughters of God.  Each time we pray we draw near to God and we cannot help but be changed by being in his presence where we find that God hears us, loves us and knows us completely -v8 He knows our needs before we pray (we don’t need to say the right words) and the main thing is to talk with God not for a showy religious display to those around us. But to get to know God personally, to get to know God better.



The quiet time and place is important

2nd clarification is a reminder of the importance of the secret or quiet place (see Matthew 6v6) - When my daughter was very young they would toddle into my study and say ‘Dad?’ and I would look up and she didn’t have anything else to say …just ‘dad.’ She was at the limits of her vocabulary but she just wanted to talk. She was really saying … ‘I just want to be with you, I want to be near you, I want to hear you…I love you... Dad.’ 

 For Jesus prayer seemed to be such a natural thing, he always seemed to begin every day, every challenge, every encounter with prayer. Mark 1:35 ‘Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.’ Lent is rooted in Jesus going into the desert for 40 days to pray and fast. That’s why in this 40 days of Lent 2024 it would be wonderful if you could commit yourself to daily prayer and reading and reflection.  I hope you leave here determined to make time to meet with God.

God is Merciful

“Even now,” declares the Lord, “return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning.” 13 Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love  and he relents from sending calamity.’ Joel 2:12-13

That is how God describes himself in Joel 2:12-13

We find this repeated seven times in the Old Testament: Ex 34:6 Neh 9:7, Ps 86:15, Psalm 103:8, Ps 145:8, Joel 2:3. Jonah 4:2  
God does not require us to rip our ‘garments’ in a showy display of repentance. “Rend your heart” is to acknowledge your brokenness and need for God’s forgiveness and restoration. As we rend our hearts, we discover that “the LORD is close to the brokenhearted” Psalm 34:18.
When we have strayed from God, Psalm 51:17 reassures us “God will not reject a broken and repentant heart.”
In that quiet, secret place we find he is merciful, and our close relationship is restored as we rend our hearts before Him (Psalm 147:3, Isaiah 61:1).


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